Last night I dreamed my Grandpa Jack was still alive. A week earlier, it was my Grandma Esther. These dreams, arriving as the veil between worlds is thin, have me reflecting on remembrance, on the ways our beloved dead stay present in our lives, and on the tender beauty of keeping their memory alive.

In a recent conversation on The New York Times Events Live at Home series, Priya Parker discusses an article I wrote on marking the original wedding date of a postponed wedding through simple ritual. Priya chats with guest, Elaine Welteroth, about the ways she and her fiancé completely reimagined their nuptials to pull off a wedding that was physically distant while still gathering their loved ones close.